In todays culture, we seem to be struggling with being able to find mature committed relationships. We are constantly having to deal with fuckboys and Peter Pan syndrome, or playing the never ending game of online dating, hookup apps and constantly on the search for the next best thing. Women feel like it's hard to find a good man these days, but men aren't the only sex who is needs to up their game. Women, or girls, are enjoying this commitment free world we currently live in, and just like women may need to kiss a few frogs to find a prince, men are in desperate search to weed out the women from the girls.
Attention vs. Respect
While chasing a girl can feel like fun, the game is just that, a game. Girls will do whatever they can to turn heads and get attention, even at the expense of others. They aren't doing it to make a solid connection with someone else but rather to get more likes on Instagram or to feel validated that she is pretty enough. Women value respect and don't need to seek it from others.
Women appreciate their independence and take pride in the fact they don't need to rely on anyone else to keep their lives in order. Girls are dependent and cling to anyone who they can get what they want out of. Girls will use and drop men when they have acquired what they need, they don't want to take care of themselves, they would rather have things done for them. While mature women take care of themselves.
Knowledge vs. Knowing
Girls think they know it all, and will push their opinions on everyone else until they get their way. This selfish way of thinking is manipulative and a reflection of their insecurity of being wrong. Women want knowledge so they are open minded in accepting other peoples points of view and taking in everything around them. Being wrong is a way of learning and progressing to a mature woman.
Girls may be the life of the party, never turning down a shot, always willing to stay up until sunrise. But understanding self-control and knowing when to stop, that is what women do. They might not be the last one at the bar, but they know how to have their fun, stop when they are done, and leave like a class act. Chasing the party girl may seem like a fun idea, but men should watch out, their lack self-control could be a huge red flag.
Heat and passion and all of those feelings can feel exciting, at first. But arguing and fighting in an endless cycle, thats what girls do. Women know how to process their emotions in a productive way, and not lash out at their man like children. They take responsibility for their feelings, they know how to discuss things like adults, and won't leave you feeling like you have just been through a war at the end of every argument.
Joining Your World
Girls will kick and put up a fuss if they have to go out to dinner with your parents, or hang out with your best friend from college who just had a baby. They won't want to be a part of your individual life because it doesn't center around them. Women will make time to see your family, to invite your friends, and to bring your worlds together. Because if those people are important to you they will be important to her
Social Media Obsessed
Girls are obsessed with social media. They vainly use it as a way to seek validation from strangers and feel better about themselves. They don't want to actually make personal connections so they choose to be adored online, where they can be fake and it can all be about them. Women know how to use social media appropriately and they do not let it dictate who they are as a person.
Using Free TIme Wisely
A girl will often waste her free time because it is not important to her, she will lay around on the couch hungover watching mindless television, or put off any chores or work until the last minute because she would rather just ignore any responsibilities. Women know that free time is valuable and will use it in a way that is productive and enriches their life, like taking on a new hobby.
Besides partying too much and having no self-control, girls will never put their health before fun. They will eat junk and stay up all night and risk putting their health in jeopardy because girls don't think about the consequences of their actions or their future. Women know that while fun is essential, health is more valuable than gold and eating right, exercising and being health conscious are responsible and sexy.
A grown woman knows that the key to any successful relationship is trust and not hiding anything from your partner. If you earn a woman's trust she will share her secrets with you and bring her into her personal world. A girl will hide herself from you, she will not be confident enough in herself to open up, and she will lie and manipulate the truth to get what she wants.
All girls should be able to flaunt what they got with no one telling them they shouldn't, but a grown woman will understand class and taste and will treat her body with respect by having confidence and being classy. A girl will wear anything to get attention and will put herself in situations where she looks like she is trying to hard or dressing inappropriately for the occasion and she won't care how is reflects on you.
Princess vs. Queen
When you have a mature woman in your life, you will want to treat her like a queen because thats the type of love and respect she carries within herself and demands from others. Girls will act like little princesses, thinking the world is owed to them without having to give anything back. This immature perspective is not only selfish but detrimental to a healthy relationship. If she acts like a princess, find yourself a queen.
We all love to sit on the couch and fall into a netflix vortex on a lazy Sunday evening. But mature women know that this type of entertainment is just simple fun. They strive to seek further intelligence and maturity through things that expand their mind and knowledge. Girls think in a small minded way and find relationship quizzes, and celebrity gossip to be the only type of information they seek out.
Women will know how to empower each other, build up and support other women and be a advocate for the female voice. Girls tear other women down due to their own insecurities and jealousy. They will isolate themselves or become dependent on their men because they do not want to be vulnerable and connect with other women. Mature women are strong and supportive and thats a whole new level of sexy.
Playing The Game
Girls will relentlessly play with men's hearts. They play the game because it is exciting with no consequence to them. They don't have to put themselves out there for someone else if they are constantly unavailable, toying with others emotions, or playing the field. A mature woman will find playing games to be childish, and will respect a man who feels like same way. This mutual respect for each other is the key to a successful relationship.