Considering that it can be a bit hard to handle the depression of sticking by the wrong person for a long time, women want to be really careful while adjudicating the suitability of someone. Here we have a list of 15 questions that you can set as a framework for deciding whether he really is the perfect person for you or not.
Does He Adore You?
To answer this question you need to know whether he really does adore you or is just in it for the sex. You need to know if he adores you, because that will let you know whether he is worth going the long-term with.
Does He Support You
Support is something that you should always ensure while going into a relationship for the long run. Make sure that you go into a relationship with someone who really does support you and sticks by you through thick or thin.
Do You Confide In Him?
Do you feel that you can confide in him? Being in a relationship isn't just about the sex and kicking it off in bed, but it involves other metrics as well. Sharing stuff with each other is one thing that you should ensure here.
Does He Respect You?
Respect is something that you should ensure regardless of how much you like the other person. It is useless to go long-term with someone who doesn't give you the respect you deserve and doesn't respect you the way you want.
We know that this isn't the most important factor, but always go for a guy that practices chivalry. Guys that practice chivalry are of the best kind and would give you all the respect and love you desire in the relationship.
Show You Off
Does he really show you off? Not just boast about you with his friends, does he like really brag about you in front of his families and defend you in his social circle? If he does then he is the guy to go long term with.
Does he Change for You?
We often say that changing in a relationship for someone else isn't on. But, if the guy isn't willing to drop some of his habits that you despise, then it really isn't worth it. He should keep your opinions in perspective.
Taking Time Out
If a guy takes time out for you then he really is in it for the long term. A man who is willing to free up his time and take out time for his responsibilities to cheer you up values you and will take care of you.
Paying Attention to Small Details
A guy needs to pay attention to small details in a relationship. He should look after things and should notice your moods without you telling him that you're not feeling well or okay about something related to them.
Making Life Easier
Life already has many complications in it and the perfect guy should be able to make your life easier rather than making things difficult. He should know to do the right things and should help you out in chores.
Does he embarrass himself for your happiness? You made him a new sweater after days of hard work, and you know it doesn't look good. But, he still wears the sweater to office. You don't let go of such men.
Helping You Become a Better Person
Rather than getting flustered at your negative points, if a person helps you become a better person then you really shouldn't let go of them. They really do care for you and are going for the long term with you.
Qualities You Look For
If he has most of the qualities you look for then this person really is perfect for you. He values you for what you are and matches the expectations that you had. Don't let such a partner go away rather easily.
Discussing the Future
If a man really is discussing the future with you then you shouldn't let them go away from your life. Make sure that they stick by your side and don't leave you. You want them to stay and they are in it for commitment.
Showing You Love
The final quality he should possess is the ability to show you that he is the one. There is no use of all the abilities and qualities that he shows until he doesn't let you know that he is the one you should be hanging out with.
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