It's the most common issue during sweet lovely times, known as the beginning of a relationship. But how do you know how he really feels about you? Sure things are fun and sexy at first, and you are getting along great. But is this just the honeymoon period or is this the forever kind of thing? You know how you feel, but you don't want to jump to any conclusions or play down your feelings. It can be a confusing time and sometimes can lead to over thinking and over reacting which can result in an unnecessary breakup! So instead of wishing and wondering, use some of these tell tale signs to know if your guy is falling in love.
He Makes The Plans
If your guy is the one doing all the scheming and plan making. And if you aren't the only one with lofty dreams of romantic getaways and future details of your life together, than he has more than just first date feelings for you. He wants the real thing and he is ready to commit.
He Respects You
You want to always feel like you are in an equal 50/50 respect level in your relationship, but often times one person tends to wear the pants and control the other. If your guy makes it a point to keep you guys on the same playing field and he wants to make sure you know how equal you both are, while still treating you like a queen, he is in the loves.
Keeps An Eye On You
He's not clingy, meaning you feel like you have plenty of space to be your own person in the relationship, but yet you always feel like if you need anything your man is there for you, he always is checking in to make sure you are more than happy and he has your back whenever you need it.
He Doesn't Keep Score
He does things out of the goodness of his heart because he cares about you, not because you nagged him and made him feel like if he didn't do it he would be in trouble, and he doesn't do it because you guys keep score on who owes who, he just does it because he loves you.
He's Always Honest
If he loves you and wants to share his life with you then he will want to share all of himself with you too. He won't feel the need to keep secrets because he doesn't there to be anything in the way of your guys' relationship. He's an open book for love.
He's A Selfless Soul
We all want to be good to our partners but if we aren't serious then we often will choose ourselves and our best interests over the other person. But if your guy is in love then he will make sure that his actions are selfless because your needs will be more important to him than his own.
He Fights Clean
All people in relationships have arguments, and the good ones will even have fights, but its the way that those couples fight and argue that show how important the love is for each couple. A clean, respected argument will show that he is more invested than just "I like you."
He Is Interested In Your Life
Yes he will have his own interests in hobbies, but at the end of the day, his football game and his buddies fighting weekend are nothing compared how you light up when you talk about what awesome thing happened to you at work that day or how you just love your new dress you got.
He's Protective Of You
You are the most important thing in his world so he wants to eke you safe. He makes sure that you never walk home alone, that you feel safe and secure wherever you go and that anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable is shown the door.
You Are His Focus
Most guys no matter if they are in a relationship or not, tend to have a bit of a wandering eye, they can't help but look. But a man in love is only focused on you because no one else in the world matters to him, you are his only focus and he his mind isn't going to stray.
He's Agreeable But Has His Own Mind
It's great to have a boyfriend who agrees with you and isn't always going against what you said, but make sure he has his own thoughts and opinions as well, if he is constantly a yes-man his thoughts may not be sincere and that isn't the way to a successful relationship.
A Little PDA
An insecure man will want to constantly show the world that you are his and will want to be all over each other in public, and man in love who is comfortable in your relationship will feel great with just some handholding in a sweet and loving way.
Your Plans Are Important
Even if he has some event or plans coming up in his life that he is really excited about, he will always make sure to consider your plans and your life when planning out his own. He will want you to be a part of everything exciting so he will make sure you both are on the same page.
He Gets (A Little Bit) Jealous
A little jealousy isn't a bad thing in securing a long lasting relationship. If he feels a little twinge of jealousy every time you see him laughing at the cute barista's dumb joke, than he feels the urge to make sure you know how much he loves being with you, and it reminds him how amazing you are.
Hi Invests His Time And Self In You
He wants you to be more than a couple, he wants you to be the best version of yourself that you can be. So he does not only want to have a good relationship, he wants you to be your happiest and best self and will do what he can to make that happen.
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