Sometimes, the signs aren't always clear in regards to whether he's totally into you or not. Luckily, there are some telltale signs that can help guide you towards a more definite answer. Then again, should you be entertaining someone who you're not sure is truly into you or not? That in itself should be the answer to any of your questions but, thankfully, you have us to give you fifteen probable signs that he's not in love with you. Without further ado, check them out for yourself right now.
When it comes to us men being expressive in regards to our emotions, it doesn't happen that often but, when it does it is a necessary element in any relationship. An emotionally supportive significant other is the only way any relationship can truly last.
He's Only Interested In The Physical
If he/significant other/partner only seems to be enthused when it comes to the physical aspects of the relationship, he's most likely not in love you sis. Any real man knows that the elements of being able to provide/protect and being emotionally supportive are just as important as the physical aspects of the relationship. He can't pick and choose.
Still In Touch With His Exes
Yeah, we all should already know that if anyone we're involved with is in contact with their ex-girlfriend/boyfriend or anyone they shared an intimate relationship for that matter, that whoever this person was wasn't serious about growing and nurturing a relationship with us. Can't move forward, looking back.
You Feel Like A Stranger In Your Own Relationship
If you're with someone who shows zero to little interest in your true self than you gotta dump him or prepare for the worse. How in the world can you believe that someone's in love with you if they barely know the basics of who you are personally? You should never feel like a stranger in your own relationship.
The Small Things
This one is in direct connection with our last entry of feeling like a stranger in your relationship. If your boyfriend or partner lacks the knowledge of the little things that make you, you, he probably isn't serious about the relationship. Whether it's something extremely personal or something as small as knowing your favorite candy bar, those things should be second-nature to him if he's truly in love with you.
Walks Away From Arguments
Arguments come and go in healthy relationships and is a sign that both of you care enough about a particular issue in order to hash out your differences. But, if he's constantly avoiding those difficult conversations for nothing to get better, it could be a sign that he's not caring or nurturing enough of his relationship with you, which is a terrible sign.
He Doesn't Want To Think About The Future
This is a definite sign of a man who has no plans of starting a family with you and living happily ever after with you. Anyone that's remotely interested in you would have the decency to discuss the future possibilities of your relationship with you so, if he's not, he's probably not as in love as you thought he was.
Just Overall Careless
If he doesn't notice when your mentally down, physically sick, or need of any type of aid and seems to be overall careless of your well-being, you probably should have figured out by now that he probably isn't in love with you whatsoever.
Chooses Friends Over You
Everyone needs time away from their significant other to avoid being suffocated within their own relationship but, he continuously chooses to have guy's night out with his friends rather than spend quality time with you, he probably isn't as invested in the relationship as you might think.
He's Never In The Moment With You
Life is short so, we believe that living in the moment and capturing some of those great moments with the people you truly love is the most priceless experience of all-time. With that being said, if you're with someone who appears to be lacking that spark or sense of joyfulness during life's precious moments, you might want to send him packing.
He Avoids Introducing You To His Family
Every year, the holiday season is the make or break point for a lot of relationships for this very reason. If he's unwilling to introduce you to his parents without any said explanation, maybe he thinks you're not forever material which should definitely be a sign that he's not in love with you.
If every time you go out with him and he can't seem to keep himself from drooling or making eyes with other women in the room and tends to be negligent of your presence in the room, obviously he doesn't find you that interesting and you should probably find a way out of the relationship ASAP.
Romance Is Nonexistent
We, as men, might not always get it right when it comes to the romance department but, the fact and recognition of our effort put forth should be a sign that we're in it for the long run but, if this aspect of your relationship is lacking or nonexistent it could be either he has no clue how to woo you or he's just not that into you.
Everything Is On His Time
If you're with someone who shows no interest in what you need to get done or important dates marked on your calendar and expects you to follow suit to his schedule without compromise. Run. Any sane individual would know that this behavior isn't fair to their significant other unless they really didn't care about you.
The Spark Is Gone
We understand that we live in the age of information and access so people become bored quickly and move on to the next person or fling without batting an eye but, if you're with someone who truly loves you, they'll do whatever they can in their power to make sure that flame never dies, no matter what.
With that being said, ladies and gentlemen, trust your gut and follow your heart. Life is short.
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